Thus begins the cultivation of one of the most disempowered thought processes known to man: focusing on what you don't want in an effort to achieve what you do want.

This disempowered focus gets initiated, then habituated, and eventually automated so that by the time you’re about seven years old, you’re already programmed to focus on what you don’t want…you don't even know it's happening.

And it will frustrate you like nothing else in this life.

Put simply, success comes more easily and quickly when you stop focusing on what you don't want and focus on what you do want instead.