THE GRIP
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One principle, once a week, to help you take hold of The Plenteous Life.
Get a grip on CREATING reality!
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BOREDOM: WHERE YOUR BEST WORK BEGINS
Peak creative state, the condition where founders produce their most original thinking, breakthrough decisions, and highest-value work, requires unoccupied time, not more productivity tactics. Research dating to 1908 confirms that insight arrives after the mind has been quiet, not while it is occupied. This issue of The Grip shows mission-driven founders how to produce and protect that state on purpose.
SHARPEN YOUR INSTINCTS
Not all gut feelings are created equal. This issue of The Grip Mastery Playbook breaks down the two distinct modes of instinct available to founders: survival-based reactivity shaped by history, and genuine signal free from it. Mission-driven leaders who want to move with precision rather than just speed will leave with five questions to run before any consequential decision.
YOU DON’T HAVE THE CHOICES YOU CAN’T SEE
Every decision a founder makes is filtered through System 1, an automatic operating system built from patterns encoded before they were capable of questioning them. Daniel Kahneman's research distinguishes between known unknowns, which coaching can close, and unknown unknowns, which require surfacing what System 1 has been running without awareness. This issue of The Grip by Becky Henderson reveals the invisible tax of unexamined patterns and what breakthrough change actually looks like when a founder crosses the perceptual threshold.
WHO’S STANDING FOR YOUR GREATNESS?
The people most willing to tell you a hard truth are often the most valuable relationships in your life, and the ones founders most often distance themselves from. This issue of The Grip explores the strategic importance of truth-tellers: how to recognize them, why most high-achieving leaders lose access to them at scale, and what it looks like to stand for someone else's greatness when it counts.
WHO’S REALLY RUNNING YOUR FINANCES?
A founder's financial behavior is not a financial issue. It is an identity issue. The self-perception running underneath every money decision determines what gets charged, invested, hired, and asked for, and no financial strategy produces lasting change until that identity shifts. When founders move from a default self-perception to an intentionally created one, financial results change as a direct byproduct.
THE THREAT THAT’S NOT ABOUT YOUR JOB
The real disruption AI is creating isn't about jobs or relevance. It's about identity. When a founder's sense of value is anchored in what they produce, AI becomes a direct threat to who they are. This issue of The Grip Mastery Playbook draws the distinction between leading from your output and leading from your source, and shows what becomes possible when you resolve the identity question first.
RE-CREATNG IDENTITY
Identity isn't discovered; it's built. Most founders are leading their companies, teams, and lives from a default self assembled before they had any conscious input. This issue of The Grip Mastery Playbook breaks down the mechanics of identity creation, the distinction between declarations and affirmations, and how to deliberately build a chosen identity using The Stand Protocol.
123,000 COACHES. HERE’S HOW TO FIND YOURS.
The coaching industry is large, unregulated, and full of both exceptional practitioners and costly mismatches. This issue of The Grip gives mission-driven founders a clear framework for making the coaching decision intentionally: distinguishing between how-to coaching and source-level coaching, applying a four-area vetting filter, and asking the questions that separate genuine capability from polished positioning.
YOU DID IT. NOW WHAT?
Purpose has a life cycle, and when it ends, that's not a crisis: it's a graduation. This issue of The Grip explores what happens to mission-driven founders in the season after success, why filling the gap with motion doesn't work, and how to cultivate new purpose deliberately rather than wait for it to arrive. Includes a four-week Purpose Audit practice for founders ready to build what comes next.
YOUR PROPAGANDA IS SHOWING
Self-propaganda is a hidden mechanism where the brain constructs a prosecution file of confirming evidence for a disempowering narrative, then filters out contradictions, causing founders to lead from manufactured "data" rather than reality. This issue of The Grip exposes how the campaign gets built, the common disguises it wears ("I'm just being careful," "waiting for the other shoe to drop"), and provides a practical exercise for deconstructing it by locating the story's origin point and building counter-evidence.
UNREASONABLE RESPONSIBILITY
In turbulent change, founders don’t win by predicting. They win by creating. This issue shows how “wait and see” becomes quicksand, and how unreasonable responsibility restores clarity, momentum, and mission-aligned leadership when certainty is gone.
RESISTANCE IS YOUR EDGE
Resistance isn’t proof you’re failing. It’s the pressure that activates the leader your mission requires. This issue shows founders how to stop treating friction like a problem and start converting it into clarity, decisive action, and stronger culture as they scale.
WHY UPGRADING YOU SCALES THE BUSINESS
Coaching scales the business when it upgrades the founder. This issue of The Grip breaks down seven tangible ways coaching strengthens decision-making, execution, resilience, nervous system steadiness, and leadership impact. You’ll also get a coachability filter to assess whether you’re positioned to benefit from coaching’s ROI.
STOP TALKING YOURSELF OUT OF IT
Founders often delay on what they genuinely want, then their mind talks them out of it with “reasonable” logic. This issue shows how delay is a divided mind in action, and gives a simple process to shift who you are being so action becomes obvious. The result is cleaner momentum, restored self-trust, and faster mission progress.
THE PRESENT IS NOT YOUR ENEMY. RESISTANCE IS.
When you resist “what is,” you get pinned to it. Acceptance is not agreement, it’s the release of tension that restores leverage, calm, and strategic choice. This issue teaches a fast paired-phrase method to neutralize reaction so founders can see options and act decisively.
DON’T UPGRADE THE PRISON. BUILD THE PALACE.
Mission-driven founders often chase “better” and keep getting the same breakdown in a new suit. This issue of The Grip shows how recurring firefighting is usually a context problem, not a competence problem. Design a new game with new standards, ownership, and a leadership identity that creates ease and scale.
WHO DO YOU “SEE” YOU ARE?
Your self-perception acts like a live filter on reality, shaping how you interpret people, signals, and “proof.” This issue shows how founders can unknowingly lead from a distorted lens, then reclaim steadiness, clarity, and choice when they confront the story they silently tell about themselves.
START AGAIN WITHOUT STARTING OVER
Starting again can feel like regression, but if your foundation remains, you are not back at zero. This issue of The Grip reframes resets as a return to ground level, where growth is faster because you’re building with experience, depth, and clarity. It’s a leadership reminder that when in a season of rebuilding, you’re further along than your circumstances suggest.
IF IT WERE SIMPLE, YOU’D ACT
Many founders don’t drown in work, they drown in self-made complexity. This issue exposes “complexity as a costume,” why simplicity can feel threatening, and how choosing simplicity as a discipline restores momentum, integrity, and execution that compounds.
COMMITTED & NOT ATTACHED
This issue of The Grip shows mission-driven founders how to turn “being wrong” into an advantage. Instead of defending Plan A, you learn to read market feedback as signal, run smaller experiments, and pivot with integrity. The result is clearer decisions, sharper execution, and faster momentum toward the mission.