THE GRIP
mastery playbook
One principle, once a week, to help you take hold of The Plenteous Life.
Get a grip on CREATING reality!
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WHAT’S BETTER THAN BEING RIGHT? A LIFE THAT WORKS
Being right doesn’t scale your vision; workability does. This issue of The Grip explores how upgrading from right/wrong to workability frees leaders to create clarity, impact, and scale.
ENOUGH ALREADY!
Your inner critic isn’t discipline; it’s sabotage. High-performing leaders often mistake self-criticism for fuel, but in reality it hijacks creativity, drains energy, and infects every relationship they lead.
This issue of The Grip unpacks how overwork and harsh self-talk aren’t strategies but symptoms of unworthiness—and why compassion toward yourself is the most powerful leadership move you can make.
Learn how to transform your inner dialogue from abuse to empowerment, break the cycle of “never enough,” and create a leadership presence that multiplies clarity, generosity, and impact across your team, culture, and legacy.
WHY MANAGE TIME…WHEN YOU CAN MULTIPLY IT?
This issue of The Grip explores how leaders can transform their relationship with time from scarcity to mastery. Discover how to stop spending time like it’s slipping away and start investing it to multiply results, clarity, and ease.
SURVIVAL IS SELFISH…WHEN YOU’RE MADE TO MULTIPLY
Leaders aren’t meant to scrape by—they’re meant to multiply. This issue of The Grip reveals how to move from survival mode to intentional overflow that sustains your mission and empowers others to thrive.
FULLY COMMITTED:
Commitment turns wishes into reality and moves leaders from stagnation to powerful action.
When visionary leaders choose total commitment, they shift identity, focus energy, and turn bold vision into scaled impact.
THE GAME YOU WERE BORN TO PLAY
This issue reveals how context shapes your results and explores how visionary leaders intentionally create their own playing field to make the impossible inevitable. It connects inner transformation with outer impact across business, leadership, and culture.
LEADERS DON’T BREAK HABITS THEY BREAK IDENTITY TRAPS
Break the cycle of disempowered habits by shedding the identity that created them. Discover how visionary leaders change their behavior by first redefining-reinventing-recreating who they are.
OPPORTUNITY HIDES IN CHAOS: CAN YOU SPOT IT?
Discover how visionary leaders transform chaos into opportunity by shifting their perception. Learn to reframe challenges as catalysts for growth and innovation.
LANGUAGE: THE MASTER TOOL YOU’RE UNDERUSING
Most people use language to describe reality—but visionary leaders use it to create it. Learn how upgrading the words you speak can shift identity, drive bold action, and generate extraordinary results in business and life.
SAY GOODBYE TO MR. NICE GUY
Most leaders mistake niceness for kindness—thinking it’s virtuous when it’s actually self-protective. This issue of The Grip reveals why real leadership demands courageous kindness, not comfort-seeking politeness, and how embodying the difference drives trust, growth, and impact.
WHY ‘BETTER’ KEEPS YOU FEELING BROKEN
Many high-achievers unknowingly chase self-improvement from the belief that they’re broken. This issue of The Grip reveals how true transformation begins—not with fixing yourself—but by remembering you’re already enough.
YOUR BRAIN’S TEMPER TANTRUM PT. 3
Discomfort isn’t danger—it’s a sign that you’re growing. Learn to retrain your survival brain so discomfort no longer signals “stop,” but becomes the starting point for scale, leadership, and lasting impact.
YOUR BRAIN’S TEMPER TANTRUM PT. 2
Being wrong isn’t dangerous—it’s a survival brain reflex wired from childhood. This issue of The Grip reveals how clinging to being right is costing you growth, leadership, and joy—and shows how to reframe mistakes as fuel for transformation.
YOUR BRAIN’S TEMPER TANTRUM PT. 1
Your survival brain reacts to rejection like it’s a life-or-death threat, hijacking your clarity and confidence. But rejection isn’t fatal—it’s a perception error.
Learn how to reframe social disapproval, override outdated survival instincts, and take action without fear holding you back.
“I CAN’T AFFORD IT”—
Most people believe they’re limited by what they can afford, but that mindset keeps them stuck. This issue of The Grip challenges the affordability trap and introduces a powerful shift: taking full responsibility for creating financial means instead of settling for what’s already available.
MASTER THE HIDDEN STORIES CONTROLLING YOUR RESULTS
Your mind is a master storyteller, constantly interpreting events and shaping how you experience leadership, relationships, and even your own identity. But here’s the thing: not all these stories are true. And the ones that aren’t? They could be limiting you more than you realize.
BLINDED BY STORY:
The second my vision went dark, my brain didn’t wait. It handed me one story: You’re in danger. It was instant, automatic, and utterly wrong—but I almost turned into the Tasmanian Devil because of it.
My experience in that moment is a picture of the challenge we all face in getting a handle on our default stories. Default stories are automatic and in turn, drive behavior. You always behave in a manner consistent with the story you’re telling. And the trickiest part is default stories are almost impossible to identify, unless you know where to look.
ONCE UPON A STORY THAT STUCK
The single biggest influence on your quality of life in any given moment is what you say about it—your story. This capacity is powerful, and how you use it makes all the difference in creating benefit or harm; both for yourself and others. Getting conscious of and intentional with your story will fundamentally transform your life.
UNLOCK YOUR CREATION MASTERY
The reason for not getting desired results when doing all the “right” things is being out of sync with the fundamental laws of creation to begin with. The more you understand how creation works—and get in step with it—the more effectively you will create what you want in life. Ultimately, the more skilled at creating you become, the less constrained by scarcity, stagnation, and strain you’ll be.
SEEING THE INVISIBLE
In today’s issue of The Grip, we show you how this fundamental skill of making distinctions—a skill you utilize everyday already by default—can be intentionally harnessed and leveraged for your benefit.
Why does that matter? Because where distinctions increase, so do options to navigate your world—how you lead, love, create, and serve. The opposite is true as well: where distinctions decrease, so do options to navigate your world.